Everyday life is juggling between career and household chores. Working as digital vampire virtual assistant by twilight, eclipse, new moon and breaking dawn. So sleep deprived all the time. Be able to eat twice in a day – breakfast and supper. Experiencing asthenopia for staring at the computer monitor for extended periods of time Having some back pain and pain swelling around the wrist for working 13 to 14 hours a day/shift. Being born under the “Ox” sign, typically am a hardworking creature creeping in this rapidly changing world.
Traveling in a tough rough road for so many years. All the time is down time, but enjoying and appreciating those moments. It made me more human though. “When the going gets tough, the tough get going.” One of the most rewarding moments is enjoying the most difficult and complicated situations in life. Kinda hard right? How can a person enjoy while in a state of pain? grief? sorrow? No pain, no gain! My principle is so simple take negative into positive. Cry all I want! Complain all I want! But never did I carry all those shits, all day everyday in my life. What happened today is only for today. Tomorrow is another day. A new day with seven band of colors and a very clear light of bliss at the end of the tunnel.
Reality bites and it sucks! Learning to accept and letting go of what is not meant to be or meant for you is the easiest way to accept reality. Make God rule your life and heart. Follow what is good and never insist on what you insist because if it is not destined to be, it will never be. We are all the captains of our life. We drive and navigate our own success and failure. Even though how hard we try to hit the goal, we are still experiencing life’s bits and pieces. But in spite of those herbs and spices in life, the show must go on! Maneuver to drive the path for betterment and success. And my secret to fight enemies on the battlefield is my “Three Minions!”
My Three Minions represents my glorious joyful pains, sacrifices, and tears. They are the reason to strive, reason to get tired, reason to sleep and wake up, reason to make a living, reason to do household duties, reason to get angry, reason to be happy, reason to breathe. The very reasonable explanation to my existence. I maybe experiencing some intermittent life signal but my 3 minions are paid back happiness, joy and pride.
I don’t have millions in my bank account, Ferrari, diamonds, Birkin bag, Cartier La Dona Watch and real estate properties to give and bequeath on my last will and testament 😀
Quality education is the best gift I can give to my minions. It can never be stolen, loaned, pawned, snatched, grabbed, burned, drowned, torn apart from their whole being. Their college diploma would be the best piece of paper they’ll gonna get and be proud of. My Minions just got their “honor cards” recently. Being so consistent in getting high grades, being part of the top 10 of their respective grade level, be able to qualify for honor rolls and be one of those outstanding students; they’ve got what it takes to be one those deserving individuals. Minion 1 (Iñaki) received honor card with an average of 88.44 % , Minion 2 (Maxine) on the top 7th of her class level and Minion 3 (Xundee) got 90. 19% on her honor card. Three gradings in a row and one last to go. Keep it up and make your digital mom so proud of you 3! Education plus smart way of living, pretty much sure they’ll likely to succeed in life. Mistakes, failures, and disappointments are just around the corner but my heart is confident that they’ll turn negative into positive.
After all what I’ve been through, I don’t mind at all. And I don’t dwell about the past, failures, mistakes, and humiliations. I love those who hate me. I love my life. I love my 3 Minions! They are my life. They are my everything. They made me complete as a woman and as a mom – digital mom as I say.
My 1-2-3 Minions… my joy, my honor, my pride. 1 big proud momma is what I am!